Confidence Boosters

Allure Magazine this month featured 39 great tips to boost your self-confidence. For those of you familiar with the Happiness Prescription, you know that believing in yourself is a vital component to being happy.

confidence boosters with quote by Dr. Elizabeth Lombardo

Many thanks to Danielle Pergament for including me in this wonderful article!  Here are my top 7 favorites (but they are all good, so go buy the magazine and learn all 39 for yourself :)

  1. Accept Praise: Just say “thank you” when someone gives you a compliment; don’t act like it is a challenge for a debate
  2. Meditate: Tons of research shows how helpful mediation is for our well-being.  And, having recently completed my training in Transcendental meditation, I can tell you: this stuff is awesome!
  3. Stop Envy: Be happy for those around you, not in competition for what they have
  4. Workout: Looking for a “Magic Pill?”  Exercise is just the thing!  It boosts confidence, positive mood, creativity, productivity…
  5. Don’t Exaggerate Your Mistakes: You are your toughest critic, so stop.  Be as nice to yourself as you are your best friend.  Imagine how good that will feel.
  6. Put on Lipstick (or whatever else helps you feel good): When we feel comfortable on the outside, the confidence seeps into our minds, too
  7. Volunteer: Reaching out and helping others helps us feel better about ourselves and our lives.

So try any of these confidence boosters today & let us know how they feel.

Happiness is an important part of our Declaration of Independence

As a kid I remember having memorized parts of the Declaration of Independence (as well as many Shel Silverstein poems).

In celebration of our country’s independence, here is an excerpt:

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness

So, how do you think we, as a country, are doing on this last piece?

A Happy You as part of our Declaration of Independence

I think we are doing a stellar job at pursuing happiness.  Unfortunately many are going about it in unhelpful ways:

  • Shopping “therapy”
  • Overuse of prescriptive medications
  • Seeking counsel from those famous therapists Ben & Jerry

This 4th of July, let’s celebrate our life, liberty and pursuit of happiness in more helpful ways:

  • Spend time with friends and family
  • Relax
  • Go for a swim, walk or bike ride
  • Get outside
  • Listen to some upbeat music
  • Give yourself (and others) a break
  • Be grateful for the treasures in your life

So have a happy 4th of July and be A Happy You!